Sunday, May 31, 2009

Battle of wills

Danny was going outside with is group when we arrived, and came toward us as soon as he saw us. Unfortunately, once he realized spending time with Mom and Dad meant no play time with his friends he turned around and we had to pick him up before he went too far. This caused much displeasure, I tell you! We haven’t seen him this fussy and obstinate since our first few days of bonding. Once we calmed him down (Mom’s shoulder works wonders for this) we allowed him to play with his friends a bit. This seemed like fun to him until he saw he wasn’t getting Mom and Dad’s undivided attention, so he kind of zoned out like institutionalized children often do.
Once we got him in the stroller and away from other children he was fine, one more aspect we will need to diligently work on. He does seem to get along well with the other kids, who call his name when they see him. One little boy in particular seems to be his buddy and will try to lead him to us when we show up, or like today pushed him on the swing. We believe his name is Sasha but with so many children around and the caregivers calling names it’s difficult to be sure. Today’s photo is of Danny and Sasha on the swing-set.
Our walk today took us to a different part of town. We came across an elementary school (see photo) with much of the same playground set-up as at the orphanage, what few there were.

Tomorrow is Children’s Protection Day – a national holiday in which they celebrate their children with parties and presents. This is much like our mother’s or father’s day but in reverse. (Of course – everything seems backward here!) We’ll be treated to a performance by the older children at the orphanage of singing, reciting, and dancing. More on this tomorrow.

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